Thank you all for your supportive messages - You are all such lovely people. I'd love to meet you all in person to say thanks!
Susan D - Thanks for your comments. Unfortunately or fortunately, whichever way you look at it, my Dr and various hormone tests say I have gone through and am out the other side of the change at a very young age!! I now have to prepare for bone density tests and I am def.. not going onto any more drugs - no HRT for me!
Just checked the garden - I have loads and loads of green tomatoes (mostly still small) but look.....
one has decided to start turning - maybe that 10 mins of sun we've had has done the trick. I was not looking forward to making green tomato chutney!